Sunday, January 23, 2011

Time is not a healer...

They say time heals everything.Uber lie!!
It is just that with time people accept the truth and become strong enough to live with the loss. They have mastered themselves to hide the pain, and it doesn't mean that they are healed. Its far from possible.
The only thing is, they don't want to make life miserable for them and people around them. Involving and keeping busy is the only thing to distract them from their wounds. Time doesn't heal and it never can.


11 comments:

Neeha said...

Be positive sneha.
I couldn't agree or disagree with you,coz my personal experiences temme that,there is a bit truth n a bit lie hidden in it.
Take Care.

Arv said...

with certain things, a huge I AGREE on this one mate...

but then there are other stuff which do tend to get left behind...

take care...

Cheers,
Arv.

Vivek Chamoli said...

Hi sneha,

Time is definitely a healer in someway but not always , some wounds don't heal with time and won't be so as the memories keeps ..coming ..
which we don't have control and we also don't want to forget as well.

So to Heal ourself I think we also have to some extra effort from our side.

But in some way its not the perfect remedy.

Take care

Nidz said...

well I dont agree with "time is not a healer" things. yes its true that in course of time ppl accept their mistakes, live thru hard times and say time is healer. but it actually heals. i ave gone through a lot in past. U knw abt my accident and stuff. I always thot with times too things wudnt heal, but it actually did magic.

Nidz said...

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Mulling Over My Thoughts said...

So are you also inclining towards my 'time is irrelevant' theory?

Murali said...

I agree with you. It just dissolves past or makes us master in hiding the pain. Gift of reminiscence makes me happy always, irrespective of good or bad, it is just bad makes me happy by pushing me close to other end. So, may be I am wrong, and time does heal.

KParthasarathi said...

I would put it this way.Time blunts the intensity of grief.It does not and cannot remove.Were it not for the lessening or reducing the pain , life would be a great misery

Purna Koumudi Vogeti said...

Hi Sneha... I was just passing by your blog and read this post and though I dont know you , I thought I should comment.
I AGREEE with you :-). Nothing can ever heal the hurt in our hearts....its just that we try to forget it and move on in life :-)

Regards,
Purna.

sm said...

memories stay forever

simran said...

A true fact you said!
Very nice..