Monday, March 9, 2009

Inquisitiveness- A behavorial disorder




Every relationship thrives and survives on keeping some distance. This is the life and breath of every surviving creature. Even young saplings need some distance to germinate and grow. Some people don't seem to understand this basic fact. Or may be I am wrong, they understand it very well when this applies to themselves but it is a different story when it applies to others. Every damn silly detail about others must be known. Why? Just for fun and common knowledge. Please understand some feelings, facts and issues are private affair and should not be pried into. And even so of a person with whose life you are remotely connected. This is beyond every realm of civility.
These habits unnerve me a lot and I am sure it would to some of you too.

34 comments:

Shravan said...

true. but how did u read my mind? i was to write the same stuff :( anyways glad that u did it in the simplest way.. in just a para.. :) it happens and helpless people are about it though its ....

Sneha said...

hey Shravan
Telepathy u see.:)

अविनाश said...

short & precise...good one

Arv said...

ahhh... it happens... they just need to be dealt with... cant really say who is right or wrong... just the way people are... :)

take care mate... cheers...

Amrita~Ams said...

hmm...true..
space is needed...

Mulling Over My Thoughts said...

it is a natural tendency for humans to feel that they are in control. which is the reason they work towards gathering as much information as they can and to give out as little as possible.
moreover, we're social animals...as much as we want space, when we do get it, we don't know what to do with it. yet, we always need our space...is a contradiction i'm still struggling to understand!

Pallav said...

unfortunately this is so called Society...

and other thing i have to deal with them daily..so i m pissed off from them n donno what to say and how to deal but still i need to speak to them n gv them a fake smile....
Very sensitive topic...
Earnestly and precisely pen down... Good

Dhanya said...

So true. I get really pissed off when people ask me each and every single detail of my life. I just answer em with a very short, undetailed answer :D Some of em happen to be very close to my family... so can't ask em to shut up!

yamini meduri said...

kya karien....we have to face it..!!!

Harshita said...

When they ask me something like that? I look at them with those big devilish eyes of mine, give a smirk and ask " Why do you want to know?"

lol... I think I scare them away.

Sam said...

thats an interestin premise sneha :)

pisku said...

Well, it depends on who ur talking about. Pesky people are easy to avoid, but if its someone closer who is invading ur space, then its different.

sawan said...

i learned a new word :)
i agree to each word of urs :)

Aevi said...

i agree... but then its relative right? somthing that I consider as my personal space is somthing that Y considers a intruders space...!!!

kinda hard to state tht limit n boundry

Sneha said...

@ Avinash
I am a lazy bone ;) couldn't write a long one.:)

Sneha said...

@Arv
I have a strong dislike for such nosy guys.:)
have a nice day mate.:)

Sneha said...

@ Ams
yeah.:)

Sneha said...

@ Bikram,
I keep it simple and avoid such people and behavior.:)

Sneha said...

@ pallav
:).I agree at work u would have to tolerate such people.:)

Sneha said...

@ Dhanya,
I wish there is a device that could be used to seal their tongue.:)

Sneha said...

@ yamini
haan kuch nahi kar saaktey.bus mun hee mun behot kuch kar latey hain.:)

Sneha said...

@ harshita,
mera dil karta hai dusrey planet mai transport kar dun.:)

Sneha said...

@ Sam
yeah.:)

Sneha said...

@ Pisku
I am referring here to those so called close people who knowingly try to hurt you and are not able to tolerate that some information is being kept away from them.:0

Sneha said...

@ sawan
:).

Sneha said...

@ Aevi,
'Y' should understand that
If u care for somebody the first principle is that you at all cost should avoid making him/her uncomfortable by excessive inquisitiveness.
That is what i was trying to put across.:)

Kartz said...

Oh it sure does... There ought to be a space for the individual in relationships.

Neat!

Peace.

---
Holi greetings to you and yours...

dreamer said...

You won't believe... you just wrote my mind out....of recently I am having trouble of similar short...However you may dislike you have to put a smile and politely answer...what's worst when you successfully ignore and believe you are triumphant...a day later you hear the latest fiction casting you in the lead..people...they just can be incorrigible.

Happy Holi!!

Sneha said...

@kartz
Thanks and wish the same to you too.:)

Sneha said...

@ Nanika,
And the best part is that they make you look guilty if you decide not to disclose or talk about the issue openly.:)

Off the cuff said...

You reinforced it again...i need some space... ;)

manivannan said...

True sneha...curiosity always irks!

good write up!

*smiles and wishes*

Sneha said...

@ Rahul,

I think this need has gone into my subconscious mind.;)

Sneha said...

@ mani,
Curiosity killed the cat.:)
Thanks for the wishes.
Have a nice day friend.:)